How to Choose a Meaningful Engagement Ring

How to Choose a Meaningful Engagement Ring

Thoughtful guidance from Relic Fine Jewelry

Choosing an engagement ring is more than checking boxes for size, shape, or sparkle. It’s about creating something lasting—something that feels personal, intentional, and reflective of the relationship it represents.

At Relic Fine Jewelry, we believe a truly meaningful ring starts with craftsmanship, care, and your story. Here’s what to consider when designing or selecting an engagement ring that will stand the test of time.

❖ Start with What Feels True

Forget trends for a moment. The most impactful rings are the ones that feel authentic to the person who will wear them every day. Think about their style, their lifestyle, and what they naturally gravitate toward.

• Do they like bold, sculptural design, or simple, minimal pieces?
• Do they tend to wear yellow gold, platinum, or a mix?
• Would they want something traditional, or something totally unexpected?

These answers can guide everything from stone shape to band design. A ring doesn't need to look like everyone else's—it should look like theirs.

❖ Choose a Stone That Speaks Through Craft

We don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to gemstones. Some people love the clarity and tradition of a diamond. Others are drawn to colorful gemstones, like sapphires with interesting hues and character.

At Relic, we source diamonds and gemstones of the highest quality—and in many cases, we cut them ourselves. This hands-on approach allows us to work with rare materials and shape each stone to best suit the design, resulting in pieces that are both refined and truly one-of-a-kind.

❖ Build It to Last

An engagement ring should be made to endure daily life. At Relic, every piece is hand-forged by one set of skilled hands—not cast or mass-produced. We design with durability, comfort, and longevity in mind, so the ring isn’t just beautiful on day one—it’s built to hold up for decades, or generations.

We’ll talk you through the setting style, stone height, metal type, and design elements that will wear well and suit your partner’s day-to-day routine.

❖ Make It Personal

The most meaningful rings often carry subtle, personal touches—maybe a custom engraving, a hidden stone, or a unique design reference. In our custom design process, we take time to understand your story so we can bring those small but powerful details to life in a way that feels natural and sincere.

❖ Take Your Time, and Ask Questions

You don’t need to walk into the process knowing everything. Whether you’re starting with a vague idea or a clear vision, we’re here to help you explore possibilities and make thoughtful choices.

Our custom consultations are collaborative and low-pressure. We're here to listen, guide, and help create a Relic that’s truly meaningful to you.

Ready to Begin?

If you’re looking for a ring that reflects your values—not just your budget—we’d be honored to work with you. Every Relic engagement ring is one-of-a-kind, designed and built by hand from the ground up.

Reach out to book a consultation. Let’s create a ring that’s as intentional and enduring as your relationship.